A Healthy Ego

“Pride makes us artificial and humility makes us real.”  Thomas Merton 


Theres a story in Greek mythology about a young man named Narcissus.  

He was a very handsome young man, and he knew it. One day he saw his reflection in a stream, and he became enamored with the image of himself. He couldnt pull himself away; he stared into the stream day and night.  

As the story goes, he became so trapped in his own ego he eventually turned into the Narcissus flower, rooted at the waters edge. 

As believers, we are Gods children. The world looks at us to see a reflection of Godto see what He is like. If we are caught up in ourselvesthe watching world will see a marred image. It will see a body of Christ that is selfish, cares little for anyone else, and doesnt believe its own teachings. 

Ego is a fickle thing. Having a deficient ego can cause someone to wallow in self-doubt and lack confidence. On the other hand, someone with an inflated sense of self-worth can be seen as an egomaniac and arrogant. It can often be challenging for Christians who have been successful to find balance.  

But the apostle Paul serves as a good example. His ministry grew and spread rapidly, yet this was his perspective: “We do not want to boast about work already done in someone elses territory. But, Let the one who boasts boast in the Lord. For it is not the one who commends himself who is approved, but the one whom the Lord commends” (2 Corinthians 10:16-18). 

A balanced ego wont become overly inflated. This balance is rooted in seeing ourselves clothed in Gods grace and practicing what pleases Him. Here are some sound principles to consider:  

The sacrifice you want is a broken spirit. A broken and repentant heart, O God, you will not despise” (Psalm 51:17). 

“When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom” (Proverbs 11:2). 

“Therefore, as Gods chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience” (Colossians 3:12). 

“Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up” (James 4:10). 

How can we best acknowledge, celebrate, and take satisfaction in what God is doing in, around, and through us in a way that honors Him and reflects Him to others? 


My prayer this weekLord God, you know my struggles with pride. I desire to give you the praise and glory for the good things youve placed in my life! Please help me to recognize and confess pride as it occurs in my heart, to your glory, my growth, and others blessing.